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What the Fathers say

Ecclesiastes 3:7

Eastern Fathers

Desert Fathers

A brother asked a hermit, 'If I live with other monks, and see something wrong, do you want me to say something about it?' The hermit replied, 'If some are older than you, or your contemporaries, you will have more peace of mind in keeping silent for you will find peace in putting yourself below the others.' The brother said to him, 'How can I do that, abba? For my thoughts would trouble me.' The hermit said to him, 'If you are worrying about the matter, offer a piece of advice, once, with humility. …

The Desert Fathers, Sayings of the Early Christian Monks ↗

Dionysius of Alexandria

"A time to keep silence, and a time to speak." A time to speak, when there are hearers who receive the word; but a time to keep silence, when the hearers pervert the word; as Paul says: "A man that is an heretic, after the first and second admonition, reject."

A Commentary on the Beginning of Ecclesiastes - Chapter III ↗

Western Saints

Ambrose of Milan

Ought we to be dumb? Certainly not. For "there is a time to keep silence and a time to speak." If, then, we are to give account for an idle word, let us take care that we do not have to give it also for an idle silence. For there is also an active silence, such as Susanna's was, who did more by keeping silence than if she had spoken. For in keeping silence before others she spoke to God and found no greater proof of her chastity than silence. …

On the Duties of the Clergy 1.3.9 ↗

Jerome

"A time for silence and a time for speaking." I think that the Pythagoreans, whose discipline is to remain silent for five years and afterwards to speak to learned men, took the origin of their decree from this. Let us learn therefore and so remain silent first, so that afterwards we open our mouths only to speak. Let us be silent for a set period and depend on the utterances of our teacher. Nothing seems right to us unless we learn that after much silence we are made into teachers by our pupils. …

Commentary on Ecclesiastes ↗

Gregory the Dialogist

The tongue, therefore, should be discreetly curbed, not tied up fast. For it is written, "A wise man will hold his tongue until the time," in order, assuredly, that when he considers it opportune, he may relinquish the censorship of silence and apply himself to the service of utility by speaking such things as are fit. …

The Book of Pastoral Rule, Part 3, Chapter 14 ↗